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Why Litigate? Let’s Collaborate! An Alternative Dispute Resolution Option for Separated and Divorcing Families

One would think that, after more than 30 years of practicing family law, I have seen it all. I have seen a lot - trust me - and very little surprises me anymore, but I have not seen it all. A growing trend that I have seen of late is the expectation of many that [...]

By |2024-10-03T19:05:11-05:00October 3rd, 2024|Blogs|0 Comments

“When Will It End?” Paying Support for Adult Children, and When to Stop Paying

Introduction As we embark on another school year, I have received a few calls of late from both former clients and from prospective new clients about their child support obligation to their children who have turned 18. People have told them that their child support ends automatically when the child turns 18 years old, and [...]

By |2024-09-08T20:32:03-05:00September 8th, 2024|Blogs|0 Comments

“What We Have Here is a Failure to Communicate!” The Downside of Poor Communication between Parties in a Family Law Dispute

Introduction In July 2023, I wrote a blog about poor communication involving lawyers with their clients, lawyers with other lawyers, and judges with the parties. A year has gone by, and I felt that I had just scratched the surface about poor communication and its impact on family law matters. As with any relationship, whether [...]

By |2024-08-01T18:59:44-05:00August 1st, 2024|Blogs|0 Comments

“It’s the Little Things That Matter” Asking for and Getting the Smaller/Ancillary Terms in Family Law Agreements and Orders

When lawyers plead cases and settle cases in family law, we are generally focused on the major issues that our clients are facing, namely, decision-making responsibility, parenting time, child support, spousal support, property issues and a restraining order. These issues take up most of our time and effort, but we are often confronted with the [...]

By |2024-07-04T11:34:55-05:00July 4th, 2024|Blogs|0 Comments

“Stay In Your Lane” The Balance Between Being a Your Client’s Legal Advocate, Their Friend, and their Legal Activist

As I approach the end of my 50s, I sometimes reflect on the work I have done for my clients, and I truly hoped they know that I tried my best to represent their interests. When I was a young lawyer, I did not have the wealth of experience that I now have, but I [...]

By |2024-06-05T08:28:09-05:00June 5th, 2024|Blogs|0 Comments

What’s Yours is Mine, and What’s Mine is Yours, Right? Right?? Common Law Spouses and the Property Issues Between Them

In my last blog, I wrote about the how the “boomer generation” is getting older and that we are seeing the largest transfer of wealth in history. I focused that blog on transfers of property between married spouses, and between parents and children, for tax purposes, for business purposes, for inheritance purposes, or simply for [...]

By |2024-05-03T08:28:06-05:00May 3rd, 2024|Blogs|0 Comments

Whose Name Is It In Anyway? The Transfer of Property Between Spouses and Family Members And Its Consequences in Family Law Cases

As the “boomer generation” gets older, we have been told that we will see the largest transfer of wealth in history. We don’t have to wait for the future – it’s already here - some of that wealth transfer is happening right now. In family law cases, we are seeing older parents transfer some of [...]

By |2024-03-28T19:09:34-05:00March 28th, 2024|Blogs|0 Comments

Is there “Alienation” Amongst Us? Parenting Alienation and its Impact in Family Law Cases

In recent communications I have had with family law lawyer colleagues on social media, one of the issues that has come up is the reference to parental alienation in family law cases: how often it comes up, when it comes up, how judges treat, etc. It is one of those terms that is used so [...]

By |2024-03-05T20:59:30-05:00March 5th, 2024|Blogs|0 Comments

“Can I Get Legal Aid To Help Me?” Legal Aid Services for the Family Law Client in Ontario

As the start of another new year is upon us, many family law lawyers will either smile at or dread the deluge of work that usually comes with potential clients who make it the New Year’s Resolution that this will be the year they take their ex-spouse, ex-partner, or ex-romantic liaison to court. However, with [...]

By |2024-02-06T20:13:33-05:00February 6th, 2024|Blogs|0 Comments

The Grown-Up Family Lawyer Christmas Wish (to the melody of “Grown Up Christmas List”)

Do you remember me?I have been your lawyer since January of 2023.I’ve been waiting for you to tell me what you need. Well, it’s been a really long, long time.And I know you haven’t committed a crime.But you still haven’t paid your bill, not even a dime. So here’s my year end wish.I do not mean to [...]

By |2023-12-19T21:25:36-05:00December 19th, 2023|Blogs|0 Comments
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